PROVERBS 24:4 And by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious
and pleasant riches
The word knowledge is the key to this continuation of the
proverb. Knowledge is the Hebrew word daath which means
information, perception, discernment, skill.
This is the
controlling idea for filling one's house with precious and pleasant riches.
If one is going to fill one's life with true riches, then one is
going to need information and skill. Too often we want to gain relational,
material, emotional, and/or mental
wealth without any effort or practice.
LIfe does not work this way. We
know from other parts of Scripture that relational wealth is the greatest
treasure that one can have in life.
Mark
12:30-31
Solomon is telling us that we come into the world without
the information and abilities that we need to build a truly wealthy life. We must go after it. We need to understand what we are going
after, and then we must admit that we need to learn. We need to see connections. We need to listen to people who have actually
built a rich, relation-ally, wealthy
life.
One of the first steps toward a wonderful life is to
admit that you really don't know how to
build one or you would already have built it.
Jesus calls this being poor in spirit.
The New Testament calls this humility.
Solomon here calls this the need
for knowledge, wisdom, and understanding.
Let me get specific:
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great marriage
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great family?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great walk with God?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great career?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great personal life?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic actions
that are required to have great friendships
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great financial portfolio?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great community?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to have a great church?
- Do you know and have you become skilled at the basic
actions that are required to turn enemies into friends?
One of the tragic truths is that both Solomon and all of
us have watched people fill their life with unpleasant riches and detestable
riches.
When your life is filled with bad relationships, guilt, shame,
lack of generosity, hatred, stolen
items, your life is filled; but it is not pleasant.
What is also important to realize is that the riches are
not necessarily material ones. In fact,
I believe that those are the specific kinds he is trying to get us to do some
discerning about. All of us, at one time
or another, have desired more stuff but
those are not precious and pleasant riches.
The most precious and pleasant treasures that can fill a
house are the people who love you and with whom you have a great
relationship.
It takes skill,
perception, information, and ability to maintain a relationship with the people
in your family.
When the rooms are
filled with loving family members, you have been skillful.
Now when one has material goods added to a base of great
relationships, then it is called abundance.
But I am aware, as you are, of many people who have lots of material
wealth but a paltry amount of relationships. They cannot fill a house with the
people who love them and they are really poor.
Realize that one of the things that you should focus on
learning is how to get along with people.
A solid course in people skills is one of the wisest investments you can
make.
What good is it if you have a huge home but no one wants
to come out of their rooms because they can't stand one another? If you have lots of money but your
family despises you, then you are poor.
Ask yourself: What have I done this week that will
increase the most valuable relationships in my life? It does matter if I relate to my wife using
skill. It does matter if I interact with
my children with knowledge and perception.
I want my children to be able to trust me and know that I will listen to
them.
What are the key skills for this type of room
filling: eye contact, minimal
encourages, listening, open-ended questions, time with the person, active
paraphrasing and listening to them, asking them if you heard them correctly.
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